Safety in Relationships Oy Ltd
Make the invisible visible.
Safety in Relationships Oy Ltd develops digital reflection tools for safer human relationships.
We do not build applications against anyone. Our tools are intended to support self-reflection, personal agency, emotional clarity, boundaries and safer choices — not blame, diagnosis, control or retaliation.
June 9, 2026
Kaisa Vaittinen presents “Smart Tools for Safer Relationship Decisions” at The Global Summit on Tech-Facilitated Gender-Based Violence on June 9, 2026. Delivered by the NO MORE Foundation in partnership with UN Women.
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When relationships feel unsafe, energy is spent on anticipating, avoiding, pleasing, explaining and surviving. When relationships become safer, people are more able to be present, think clearly, understand their own needs and act in alignment with their values. This is not limited to romantic relationships. The same underlying dynamics are visible in families, friendships, workplaces, leadership, client work and wider social systems. Relationship safety is a wellbeing issue. It is also a performance issue, an organizational effectiveness issue, and a societal sustainability issue.
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We provide digital applications for consumers and organizations to help make relationship dynamics more visible.
We do not tell people what to do. We help them see more clearly what is happening.
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Safety in Relationships Oy Ltd's applications are not therapy, healthcare or crisis services. They do not diagnose, do not make decisions on behalf of the user, and do not replace professional, official or crisis support.
If you are in immediate danger, contact emergency services. If you need support, contact your local crisis or support service.
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Our products are intended to support self-reflection and the user’s own agency. They are not intended to position other people as enemies, diagnoses or evidence in a dispute.
Safety in Relationships Oy Ltd publishes a clear statement of purpose, ethical boundaries, user safety expectations, and how artificial intelligence may be used. The document explains what kinds of features we pursue, what we avoid, and how we respond when a design approaches therapy, legal advice, surveillance or harm. It is written for partners, collaborators and anyone evaluating our work in sensitive human contexts. The same principles apply across consumer tools and organizational engagements, with roles and responsibilities spelled out where delivery is co-owned.
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Flag Tracker helps users track red flags, green flags, significant events, behavior patterns and personal reflections over time. Its purpose is to support early noticing, before emotional attachment makes it harder to see clearly: when is something an isolated event, and when is it becoming a pattern? Flag Tracker supports tracking past, current and emerging relationships.
Get Closure is a safe digital space for people whose relationship ended without clarity, repair or a meaningful final conversation. It is especially designed to support users when contacting an ex-partner is not safe, useful or aligned with their own recovery. Get Closure is not therapy. It is a reflection tool for processing unresolved material on your own terms.
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Safety in Relationships Oy Ltd serves both individuals and organizations. For consumers, we provide tools that make it possible to reflect on relationships privately, safely and at one's own pace. For organizations, the same principles can support work around interaction, psychological safety, boundaries, leadership, client work and group dynamics.
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Relationship safety should not be available only to those who can afford it. For consumer-facing applications, we use solidarity-based pricing. For users who cannot pay right now, the service is available at zero cost. For users who can pay more, there is the option to support access for others. This is a deliberate choice. Access does not depend on money.
The exact access model may vary by application, but the principle is the same: lack of money should not be the barrier. Free access, solidarity-based pricing or partner-supported access may be used where needed.
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SDG 5
Gender equality and the elimination of discrimination and violence against women and girls.
SDG 16
Peace, justice, reduced violence and inclusive societies.
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Safety in Relationships Oy Ltd
Digital reflection tools.
Impact Intelligence platform for organizations.
Focuses on what often does not surface through ordinary discussion, surveys or conventional facilitation.
First, create the conditions for what is hidden to surface. Then, define and measure what matters. Finally, take concrete and responsible action.
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Organizations that use our tools as part of violence prevention, separation support or client work may want to know what their use actually changes. For this, we work with evaluoi.ai to define, measure and evaluate outcomes together with the people the work concerns.
Individual user data is never shared with their organization. Impact evaluation is based on aggregated data and designed to protect individual users from identification. Measurement is not used for individual surveillance, profiling or clinical assessment.
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Explore Flag Tracker or Get Closure.
Explore the applicationsContact us about partnerships, pilots, organizational use or impact evaluation.
Discuss organizational collaborationWe are particularly interested in working with NGOs focused on violence prevention, support services for victims of intimate partner violence, organizations doing separation support work, social services, family counseling services, and bodies that train therapists and counselors.